Why persists the difficulty in giving credence to female voices?
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Heather Blundell echoes Virginia Giuffre's plea for action in her emotionally charged letter: "Is protesting the solution?" she ponders in today's Notebook. However, the tragic demise of the brave advocate for survivors of sexual abuse leaves us pondering a more fundamental question: Why do we, as a society, so swiftly doubt women who allege abuse?*
Virginia's despair gleams through her final correspondence, as she faces a future darkened by the shadows of her past. A mother, a survivor, a fighter—yet, the media began questioning her credibility when she claimed her life was hanging by a thread, following a car crash. Amidst accusations of fabrication, Virginia, a victim of child abuse and trafficking, faced the wrath of the public. Exploited by manipulators, she found the courage to speak up, becoming a beacon of hope for other survivors.
Despite her strength, Virginia's Instagram post—regarding being struck by a school bus and having only four days left to live—became an integral part of the discourse, as skeptics claimed she was fabricating her story. Victim blaming, a toxic remnant of rape culture that shifts the blame from perpetrators to victims, reared its ugly head once again. Yet, despite these challenges, Virginia continued to ensure her voice was heard and her tears were believed, ultimately becoming an icon for truth and change.
Amidst her battles, Virginia took a reported £12m settlement from Prince Andrew. However, it was also reported that she donated a significant portion of this sum to charities for abuse victims. Her mental health suffered during this tumultuous journey, but it was unacceptable to witness the superficial scrutiny she faced. Saying that she lied about her Instagram post, implying she fabricated her entire story, smothers the voice of a heroine who fought to expose the truth, even in her final days.
Virginia's tragic death now calls for a broader discussion. Why do we doubt women who claim to be victims of abuse? Moreover, why does the government remain comfortable, post a senior minister's dismissal of the grooming gang scandal as mere 'self-praising'? Is it time to rally for protest, campaigning, and calls to action against abusers—to stamp out their criminal activities? As Virginia implored, we must begin somewhere—perhaps, a starting point is to believe women when they are alive.
Championing Masculinity
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Pushing for Progress on FTSE Gender Gap
I am thrilled to support the Women in Work Summit this October, joining an incredible group of leaders such as Alex Mahon from Channel 4, Greg Jackson from Octopus Energy, and Anna Whitehouse from Mother Pukka, who are dedicated to advancing gender equity at all levels. Recent findings from the 30% Club underscore the urgency of this work. Though the overall number of women on boards has risen, only 10% of FTSE 100 companies are led by women, highlighting the work still to be done. Make sure to register for the event here.
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Heather Blundell currently serves as the CEO of Grayling UK
- Heather Blundell, in her role as the CEO of Grayling UK, echoes Virginia Giuffre's call for action, questioning if protests are the solution.
- The tragic death of Virginia Giuffre, a survivor and advocate for sexual abuse victims, raises concerns about societal tendency to doubt women who allege abuse.
- In the realm of health-and-wellness, mental-health, sexual-health, and women's-health, it's crucial to believe women when they speak out about their experiences.
- Amidst discussions of politics, general-news, and crime-and-justice, it's important to rally for protest, campaigning, and calls to action against abusers.
- In the spirit of championing masculinity, it's essential to refute the notion of 'toxic masculinity' and celebrate the strong, humble, and determined men who embody grit and resilience.
- When it comes to advancing gender equity in business, events like the Women in Work Summit play a pivotal role, with leaders like Heather Blundell pushing for progress on FTSE gender gap issues.
